Trauma responsive Divorce Coaching for a brighter future.
Do you want:
More Confidence?
Less Confusion?
More Clarity?
Is this you?
Has divorce knocked you for six?
You’re a smart woman. Confident, unafraid to go after what she wants. When life happens, you handle it.
But divorce has knocked you for six. You know, deep down, you will handle it, just as you always do.
But how? You don’t understand the divorce process. You’re scared of a solicitor’s bill running into the thousands, and still not getting anywhere.
Family and friends give you conflicting advice. Do you even need a solicitor? Should you move out? What do you do next?
You just want answers. And you want to know you’re making smart decisions.
You want to do this right so you can rebuild, plan a future you love and be that smart, confident woman who loves life.
Perhaps you haven’t considered divorce coaching but now you need support to move forward. Relax, you’ve found the right place.
“Emma helped me see I could move forward with confidence to manage my life and my money. She supported me to connect with the woman I truly am”.
That’s where I come in
I’m Emma,
I’m Emma, The Divorce Alchemist, former lawyer and mediator, here to offer trauma responsive and legally informed coaching to women like you.
If you’re here, it’s because you have questions. You want to know how to navigate this, what to do about money, whether you’ll have to move house, what’s going to happen with the children… above all you want to know your future is secure.
Divorce is confusing, can be terrifying, and has made you question everything.
But I want you to know this. You do have choices. And you can learn how to make considered, smart choices to create a flourishing, independent life.
I pour the decades of experience I have as an ex-lawyer, trained mediator, and trauma-responsive therapeutic coach into equipping you to manage your divorce in a calm and confident way.
You get to set the agenda with your solicitor, your soon-to-be-ex, and yourself. Whether you are considering divorce, or are already several miles into your divorce journey, by working with me you’ll clear on what you want and need and make it happen.
Everyone around you will have an opinion. I provide an impartial, informed, confidential space you can trust. My only agenda is to help you get the best possible outcome for you. And that might not be what you think it is right now.
If you feel like you’ve tried to get help before, but people keep referring you on because of the complexity of your case, or trauma, or neurodivergence, and you can’t find the right person for you, you’re finally in the right place.
I have supported hundreds of stressed, overwhelmed women through their divorce and into life on their terms again. I’d love to do the same for you.
A tailored divorce strategy for you
1. Book a free 15 minute consultation with me
Let’s explore what you need to take the reins in your divorce
2. We’ll develop your divorce strategy together
Time, space and support to think clearly and get informed on your options
Let’s work out the best strategy for your situation
3. Make smart choices to protect yourself now and in the future
Look forward to a future where you’ve made the right emotional and financial decisions for you and your family
“How you are feeling is a rollercoaster and most of us don’t know how to do this stuff!
Emma does, she gets it, she will get you.”
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