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The 2 ways your high conflict ex will try and control your financial settlement
When it comes to high conflict spouses, money is often a huge issue. And it’s not even about money, it’s about control. In this blog I share two of the most common ways your high conflict ex will try and control your financial settlement, and what you can do about it.
Four parenting strategies to use when your ex is high conflict
Parenting is hard. Parenting through divorce is harder. And parenting when the other parent is high conflict is perhaps the pinnacle of hard. It can be soul destroying. But there are things you can do to protect your children, both now and into the future. Here are...
How can you plan to divorce your high conflict spouse?
If your spouse is a high conflict personality type, buckle up. Your divorce, unfortunately, will be a bumpy ride. But it’s a journey worth making: the rest of your life awaits. In this blog I share the potential pitfalls of divorcing a high conflict person, compared...
The costs of denying you’re in a high conflict relationship
Too many of my clients have a big, hidden struggle when it comes to divorce. Bigger than what to do about the children. Bigger than how to agree finances. They can’t accept they are in a high conflict marriage. They have spent years living with the behaviour patterns...
Divorce and looking after your mental health: five lessons from women who’ve been there
Divorce and looking after your mental health: five lessons from women who’ve been there I’ve said this hundreds of times before: divorce is one of the most stressful life experiences you’ll ever undertake. It’s second only to the death of a spouse or child. It’s...
Taking Charge of Your Divorce Finances When You Have Ill Health
Money and divorce: a combination that gives most people a few additional grey hairs. Knowing what you have, what you don’t and coming to a settlement that feels fair can be seriously hard work. And, unfortunately, it’s even harder if you have ill health. For one...
Divorce and Ill Health: How To Support Your Children
If you’re a parent getting divorced and you have ill health, you don’t need me to tell you that you have a lot on your plate. In this blog we look at how to manage the triple demands of parenting, getting your divorce done and managing your health. Who is looking...
5 Ways To Stay On Top Of Divorce Paperwork When You Have Ill Health
When it comes down to it, divorce is a legal process. One that brings a lot of emotional upheaval, for sure. But at its heart, it takes you and your soon-to-be-ex through a legal process of separating, so you can get on with the rest of your lives independently of one...
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